If a person gets remarried before their divorce is finalized, the new marriage will not be valid. A person must have their marriage legally terminated before they can get married again. Being married to two people at once is considered bigamy, which is illegal in the United States.
You and your spouse may remain legally separated for the rest of your life if you both choose to do so. Studies indicate that the overwhelming majority of married couples who legally separate get divorced within 3 years of their separation.
Generally speaking all the assets are treated as joint assets and put into a pot for division. There is no rule that inherited assets/income are automatically excluded and can be kept by the person who inherited them. Instead it is necessary to consider the individual circumstances of the couple.
You may believe that any inheritance you receive is solely yours. However, on divorce, this is not always the case. Inheritance can include property, money, a business or valuable heirlooms such as art and antiques.
However, the basic state pension cannot be shared nor the new state pension nor any pension pot that you already received as a spouse. So, briefly, the answer is yes, your ex-wife can get her hands on your pension, if you haven't yet obtained a clean break order.
divorce cases based on Adultery are generally quicker than the other grounds if your spouse is prepared to admit it, as it does not require any discretion on behalf of the judge dealing with the divorce. As long as the acknowledgement of service is completed correctly, the judge has no choice but to grant the divorce.
Virginia law requires “clear and convincing” evidence for a finding of adultery, a higher standard of proof than other grounds for divorce. Thus, to prove adultery, one must provide the court with clear and convincing evidence that one's spouse in fact had sexual intercourse with another person.